Collared's Agony Uncle Advice Surgery*
Got a question? Being tormented with a problem? Our resident Agony Uncle committee is here to help! Of course you can post anonymously and we're non-judgemental too!
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- OK, I've got a bit of a problem here. I‘m seeing someone who I really like but he's not not into kink. How can I tell him about my kink side? It‘s a tough one because he‘s already taken the piss out of BDSM and says he thinks it's "Weird".
Show answers » - I love being tied up and restrained and love stuff like handcuffs. Problem is I have a real fear that they'll get jammed or that they can't be removed and that's wrecking the pleasure for me. Any advice?
Show answers » - I've been getting into the whole BDSM experience over the past few months but one thing I can't deal with is tickling. It makes me want to convulse and throw up, but I don't want to set it as a hard limit. It's horny, but I just can't cope with it. Any advice?
Show answers » - I find it difficult sometimes to tell guys who contact me who aren't my type that I don't fancy them, I don't want to be rude, but at the same time I don't want to be ambiguous with my responses and let them feel that something could develop. Also I don't want to be too specific on my profile about what I am and am not looking for, as for me it is not always that clear cut.
Show answers » - Hi, sorry to bother you with that problem, but how can I change the website's language into English. I feel much more comfortable with that language
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* Well, when we say 'surgery', we don't mean 'surgery' in the conventional sense, but, rather, a bunch of guys hanging around in a bedroom and y'know, trying to figure out your problems. In other words, while we try to get the best advice for you, nothing here should be construed as qualified professional opinion.
